Love is not being controlled, called filthy names,love is not slapped,cursed at,spit on,punched,kicked,laughed at,made fun of,ridiculed,beat on,have your hair pulled out,being degraded,being made to feel worthless,being forced to having sex,being raped,being burned,being forced to sleep in a dog pen,being forced to sleep in a garage,being withheld food,sleep,clothes,being forced to surrender all your money or your worldly possessions ,feeling threatened,being manipulated,being lied to,being used,being forced to eat dog or cat food,being cut,being knifed, burned,tortured,being forced to suffer,being forced to wear a dog chain or dog collar,being sodomized,being drugged,forced to lose weight,threatened,being forced to do anything that is mentally,emotionally,psychical or spiritual that is harmful to you or life-threatening.Being forced to do anything that you feel is mental, emotionally, spiritually or psychically wrong.Also, love is not a being a punching bag for no one.Being told you need to lose weight or you need to change the clothes you wear or the way you are, and love is not staying with a spouse that cheats on you with other woman or men